Military Family Support: Tools and Signposting for Family Hubs

A practical directory of trusted services, charities, training and guidance designed to help Family Hubs respond effectively to the needs of Armed Forces families.


National Policy and Guidance

Navigating Change: Helping Service Families Through Transitions 

Debra Barton from the Ministry of Defence, presents on why transition support is so important for our military families. 

https://youtu.be/GFz7j8VQiMw

Armed Forces Covenant

National promise ensuring fair treatment for serving personnel, veterans, and families.

Link: https://www.armedforcescovenant.gov.uk 

UK Armed Forces Families Strategy 2022–2032

Government strategy addressing healthcare, education, and accommodation for Armed Forces families.

Link: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/uk-armed-forces-families-strategy-2022-to-2032

Service Pupils in Schools Guidance

Guidance to help schools support the wellbeing and attainment of Service children.

Link: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/service-pupils-in-schools-non-statutory-guidance

Childcare for Service Children

Information on funded childcare, wraparound childcare and overseas nursery provision.

Link: https://www.gov.uk/guidance/childcare-for-service-children

MODLAP

Partnership between MOD and Local Authorities to support Service children.

Link: https://www.gov.uk/guidance/mod-local-authority-partnership-modlap

Current membership:

  • Birmingham
  • Cornwall
  • Dorset
  • Essex
  • Gloucestershire
  • Hampshire
  • Herefordshire
  • Kent
  • Lincolnshire
  • North Yorkshire
  • Oxfordshire
  • Plymouth
  • Portsmouth
  • Rutland
  • Somerset
  • Staffordshire
  • Suffolk
  • Surrey
  • Wiltshire

Armed Forces Organisations and Federations

Army Families Federation (AFF)

Independent voice supporting Army families with education, housing, and mobility issues.

Link: https://aff.org.uk

Naval Families Federation (NFF)

Supports Royal Navy and Royal Marines families with welfare, education and advice.

Link: https://nff.org.uk

RAF Families Federation (RAF FF)

Supports RAF families with information, casework, and wellbeing guidance.

Link: https://www.raf-ff.org.uk

Specialist Support and Charities

SSAFA

Provides welfare, housing, domestic abuse support and practical help for military families.

Link: https://www.ssafa.org.uk/get-help/military-families

Royal British Legion

Offers financial support, community connections and expert welfare guidance.

Link: https://www.britishlegion.org.uk

Help for Heroes

Supports veterans and their families with recovery, welfare and wellbeing services.

Link: https://www.helpforheroes.org.uk/get-help/welfare/family-support/

Little Troopers

Charity supporting military children through resources and emotional support.

Link: https://www.littletroopers.net

Aggie’s Storybook Waves

Allows deployed naval personnel to record stories for their children.

Link: https://aggies.org.uk/storybook-waves/

Home-Start Military Support

Provides volunteers offering practical and emotional help to military families.

Link: https://www.rnrmc.org.uk/news/helping-hand-supporting-military-families

Bereavement Support

Winston’s Wish – Military Bereavement

Specialist bereavement support for children with military-connected loss.

Link: https://winstonswish.org/death-through-military/

Scotty’s Little Soldiers

Provides long-term support for bereaved military children.

Link: https://www.scottyslittlesoldiers.co.uk

SSAFA Bereavement Support

Specialist support for bereaved military families, including suicide bereavement.

Link: https://www.ssafa.org.uk/get-help/military-families/bereavement-support-groups

MOD Purple Pack

Official guidance for families following the death of a service member.

Link: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/purple-pack-bereavement-guide-for-families-of-service-personnel

AFBSS

Education funding for children of service personnel who died as a result of service.

Link: https://www.gov.uk/guidance/apply-for-the-armed-forces-bereavement-scholarship-scheme

Training and Workforce Development

Armed Forces Covenant E-Learning

Training to help professionals understand Armed Forces family needs.

Link: https://covenantfund.org.uk/about-us/the-armed-forces-covenant/

Covenant Health Module

Healthcare-focused Covenant duty training.

Link: https://covenantfund.org.uk/resource/covenant-duty-explained-health/

Covenant Housing Module

Housing-focused support training for Armed Forces families.

Link: https://covenantfund.org.uk/resource/covenant-duty-explained-housing-senior-officers/

Early Years Armed Forces Champion Guidance

Supports Early Years settings in recognising and assisting young Service children.

Link: https://www.army.mod.uk/support-and-training/family-support/

University of Chester – Armed Forces Community Training

Six-module programme for professionals supporting Armed Forces families.

Link: https://www1.chester.ac.uk/introduction-armed-forces-community

Month of the Military Child

Celebrates the strength and resilience of military children each April.

April is the Month of the Military Child, a dedicated time to honour the resilience, sacrifices, and unique experiences of children from Armed Forces families. Celebrated annually, this month highlights the challenges of service life, including frequent moves and parental deployments, while raising awareness to help these children thrive in schools and communities. 

Key Aspects of the Month of the Military Child:

  • The Dandelion Symbol: The official emblem is the dandelion, representing the ability of military children to bloom and put down roots wherever the wind carries them.
  • Purple Up Day : Held on the last Friday of April in the UK, this day encourages wearing purple to symbolize the combined colours of all military branches (Army, Air Force, Navy, Marines, and Coast Guard).
  • Celebration & Support: Numerous organisations, such as Little Troopers and Forces Children Scotland, host events, competitions, and educational activities to celebrate these children and provide support to schools.
  • Focus Areas: The month aims to recognize the strength, adaptability, and sacrifices of military children, while promoting awareness of their unique upbringing

Ideas to kickstart Month of the Military Child 2026

The Month of the Military Child is an opportunity to celebrate Service children and show them that they are a valuable member of the school community. Here are some ideas to try out during April.

24th April is ‘Purple Up! Day’. Ask the families to wear something purple (the colour of MotMC)

2. Put on a breakfast event. Include all parents associated with the armed forces. Don’t forget to invite staff who were once Service children too!

3. The charity Never Such Innocence is running an art/ poetry competition throughout April about Service children. Visit https://www.neversuchinnocence.com/month-of-the-military-child  for more details.

4. Highlight April as ‘Month of the Military Child’ on the Family Hub’s website. Discuss what support you can offer, particularly with families new to the area.

5. Consider hosting a ‘person in uniform day’. Invite a serving mother or father to come to the Family Hub to read to children or talk about their role in the services during a stay and play session

6. Create a Time Zone Wall: A series of clocks on a wall identifying different time zones from around the world, with a focus on where Service children have lived before is a great conversation starter.

Service children can face challenges with parents in the armed forces. Yet these children are an amazing asset to families, Family Hubs and the local community. The Month of the Military Child helps us remember this and helps us celebrate their achievements.

For further information contact: [email protected] 

Link: https://www.littletroopers.net/month-of-the-military-child/

Activities and Engagement Ideas

Forces Children Scotland

Provides events and support for Scottish Armed Forces children.

Link: https://forceschildrenscotland.org.uk/understanding-forces-life/month-of-the-military-child/

Armed Forces Day

Annual celebration honouring serving personnel and families.

Link: https://www.armedforcesday.org.uk

Storybook Waves

Recorded stories for children during deployment.

Link: https://aggies.org.uk/storybook-waves/

Reading Force

Shared reading initiative strengthening family bonds.

Link: https://www.readingforce.org.uk

Who Let the Dads Out…

Being a father in the Forces can be a fraught affair, but Army&You discovered an initiative that’s helping to bring dads together.

Who let the dads out? - Army&You

Local Authority Examples

Herefordshire Council and Worcestershire County Council

Herefordshire Council and Worcestershire County Council supported by the Armed Forces Covenant Fund Trust, developed a compact Covenant e-learning programme for local authority staff and councillors. It explains the Councils’ commitment to the Covenant, and how it can be honoured and implemented. It aims to offer overall awareness and how to apply Covenant principles at a local level, across all teams.

The e-learning is available here: E-Learning – The Armed Forces Covenant at a local level

The two councils have also created two short videos to illustrate the groups that make up the Armed Forces community living in Herefordshire and Worcestershire. They also explain each county’s commitment to the Covenant and the important contribution the Armed Forces make to the nation and our local communities.

The videos are available here: Video – The Armed Forces community in Herefordshire and Worcestershire

Coventry, Solihull and Warwickshire

The Coventry, Solihull and Warwickshire Armed Forces Covenant partnership, supported by the Armed Forces Covenant Fund Trust, has developed a programme of e-learning modules focused on particular audiences and needs.

The modules are:

These are aimed at front-line staff who engage with individuals and families on a regular basis, as well as those in leadership roles. The training provides an overview of the unique challenges of Service life, and how staff can help support the Armed Forces community. It will help staff understand and apply the principles of the Covenant at a local level.

It includes sections on:

  • What the Covenant is
  • Who the Armed Forces community are and what challenges they face
  • How the Covenant applies in real-life scenarios

The training also includes additional sources of further information and support, a downloadable list of useful contacts, and a video of a ‘View from the inside’. The aim is that it will help staff understand and apply the principles of the Covenant with confidence.

Housing

A further module is also available:

  • Housing, Homelessness and the Armed Forces Covenant

This module looks at how the Covenant applies to housing and homelessness. Using case studies, it explains some of the specific needs and issues for current and former service personnel and their families, and how they can be supported. Additionally, it includes information on legislation, sources of support, and housing agencies who work with veterans.

Further information

The modules are available for free for any agency or organisation. For further information, or access to the Housing module, contact Phil Deakin at Warwickshire County Council on [email protected]

Introduction to the Armed Forces Community for healthcare professionals

The Westminster Centre for Research in Veterans at the University of Chester has produced a programme comprising six videos. This is to educate nurses and healthcare practitioners to deliver optimum care to military veterans and their families, through an understanding and insight into the Armed Forces Community.